One of the most powerful ways we teach our children is
through modeling. Those darling kiddos are always watching us, taking note of
how we do life. They pick up all kinds of mannerisms just by watching us. How
we stand, if we cross our legs when we sit, etc. They also notice how we treat
other people. Are we friendly to the store clerk? Do we hold the door for
others? Are we kind to our neighbors? Our kids will very quickly begin to
imitate our behavior. Hopefully this is a positive thing!
One area where we can really impact our kids is through
modeling loving relationships. If we want our kids to be kind and respectful
towards others, then we need to be kind and respectful towards others. If we
want them to be honest and compassionate, then we need to be honest and
compassionate. Our actions really do speak louder than our words.
If we want our kids to grow up and have strong, healthy
marriages, then we need to show them strong, healthy marriages. We need to show
them how to be loving, affectionate, respectful, and caring. We need them to see what it looks like when
you put someone else’s needs ahead of your own.
We also need to show them how to appropriately deal with
conflict. While I’m not in favor of parents arguing with each other in front of
the kids, the reality is that it happens sometimes. When it does, then our kids
need to see us properly resolve the conflict.
This whole area can
be quite challenging and overwhelming, especially if you have been through a
tough time in your own relationships. Pray and ask God for wisdom. Seek out
other resources in your church or community, such as mentoring or counseling. Don’t
give up! God desires for us to have good relationships, so allow Him to bring
healing to your heart, and trust Him to guide you, as you guide your children. Nothing is too difficult for Him!
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