Day Thirty-one- You Are Not Alone

As we come to the end of this series on parenting, I just want to encourage you to remember that you are not alone! There are so many parents who are right where you are. Our stories might differ a bit, but the overall struggles and victories are much the same.

Even though we are living in an age full of remarkable technology and communication systems, it is still easy to feel disconnected and isolated. If this is you, then please start looking for places to get connected.  Perhaps you will find some supportive people within your own family network. Also, many communities offer opportunities like playgroups, meet-up groups, and parenting classes.  There are groups for parents of children with special needs. Local churches also often have parenting support groups and education classes available. I lead a weekly Bible study group geared specifically for moms of all ages. The women who come are always commenting that it is so nice to know that there are others who are dealing with the same feelings and challenges as they are. These moms are able to find friendship, as well as mentors who can provide insight and cheer them on.

There are also many opportunities for community online. Social media, parenting websites, blogs, discussion boards, and education forums can be wonderful places to find information and encouragement. It is fun to interact with people from other parts of the country or even the world and see that we are all much more alike than we are different.

There are parenting books and magazines available that cover virtually every age and stage of human development. The possibilities for gathering information are endless. I’m so grateful for all of the resources that I have been able to gather and use over the years. These have made my journey through parenthood so much easier.

People always joke that it would be nice for children to come with an owner’s manual. Fortunately, we do have access to such a thing. The Word of God contains all kinds of wisdom for us to use in raising our children. We can also pray and ask God to give us specific direction and insight for each of our kids. What a blessing it is to be able to consult with the Creator regarding His creation!

Remember, you are not alone! Let’s do this thing called parenting together!