Even though we are living in an age full of remarkable technology
and communication systems, it is still easy to feel disconnected and isolated. If
this is you, then please start looking for places to get connected. Perhaps you will find some supportive people
within your own family network. Also, many communities offer opportunities like
playgroups, meet-up groups, and parenting classes. There are groups for parents of children with
special needs. Local churches also often have parenting support groups and
education classes available. I lead a weekly Bible study group geared
specifically for moms of all ages. The women who come are always commenting
that it is so nice to know that there are others who are dealing with the same
feelings and challenges as they are. These moms are able to find friendship, as
well as mentors who can provide insight and cheer them on.
There are also many opportunities for community online.
Social media, parenting websites, blogs, discussion boards, and education
forums can be wonderful places to find information and encouragement. It is fun
to interact with people from other parts of the country or even the world and
see that we are all much more alike than we are different.
There are parenting books and magazines available that cover
virtually every age and stage of human development. The possibilities for
gathering information are endless. I’m so grateful for all of the resources
that I have been able to gather and use over the years. These have made my
journey through parenthood so much easier.
People always joke that it would be nice for children to
come with an owner’s manual. Fortunately, we do have access to such a thing. The
Word of God contains all kinds of wisdom for us to use in raising our children.
We can also pray and ask God to give us specific direction and insight for each
of our kids. What a blessing it is to be able to consult with the Creator
regarding His creation!
Remember, you are not alone! Let’s do this thing called
parenting together!